Love must be completely sincere. Hate what is evil, hold on to what is good. Love one another warmly as Christian brothers, and be eager to show respect for one another. Work hard and do not be lazy. Serve the Lord with a heart full of devotion. Let your hope keep you joyful, be patient in your troubles, and pray at all times. Share your belongings with your needy fellow Christians, and open your homes to strangers.

Ask God to bless those who persecute you - yes, ask him to bless, not to curse. Be happy with those who are happy, weep with those who weep. Have the same concern for everyone. Do not be proud, but accept humble duties. Do not think of yourselves as wise.

If someone has done you wrong, do not repay him with a wrong. Try to do what everyone considers to be good. Do everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody.

Romans 12:9-18

The holidays can be a difficult time for people who are grieving. Friends may be reluctant to mention the name of someone who has died, fearing that it may cause unnecessary pain. But during the holidays friends or family members may need you to talk openly with them about the person they have lost. Call it the "ministry of remembering."

Bereaved people ache for opportunities to walk about their loved one, whether the person died last week or many years ago. Even though remembering may bring tears, it can also produce emotional release and even joy. Tucked into Romans we find a series of commands that can help ease a heavy burden.

Our Daily Bread - November 27, 2001