The Discerning Person Looks To Wisdom

A cheerful heart is a good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.

The wicked accept a concealed bribe, to pervert the ways of justice.

The discerning person looks to wisdom, but the eyes of a fool to the ends of the earth.

Foolish children are a grief to their father and bitterness to her who bore them.

To impose a fine on the innocent is not right, or to flog the noble for their integrity.

One who spares words is knowledgeable; one who is cool in spirit has understanding.

Even fools who keep silent are considered wise; when they close their lips, they are deemed intelligent.

Proverbs 17:22-28

As we interact with others, disagreements are inevitable. The discerning believer understands his own heart and takes steps to deal with conflict diplomatically.

We are to keep check on a multitude of opinions that could ignite anger in others. Someone who displays wisdom will think before speaking, and then will share only insights likely to be helpful.

The next time you become angry, stop and prayerfully reflect for a moment. Ask God for a calm spirit and the right words to say. Cooler heads do prevail.

The best time to stop an argument is before it starts.

Our Daily Bread – November 18, 2008