Never Avenge Yourselves
Do not repay anyone evil for evil, but
take thought for what is noble in the sight of all. If it is possible, so far
as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge
yourselves, but leave room for the wrath of God; for it is written, “Vengeance
is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” No, “if your enemies are hungry, feed
them; if they are thirsty, give them something to drink; for by doing this you
will heap burning coals on their heads.” Do not be overcome by evil, but
overcome evil with good.
There is a big difference between
sinful revenge and purifying fire. The purifying fire of a God-given love can
lead to repentance and reconciliation. That is redemptive revenge, the best of
all possible worlds. You forgive someone for something they did to you, and
they feel guilty for doing the deed against you.
Christian love
gives and forgives.